Now that the dust has settled, the Christmas Decorations are packed away and the glitter from the New Years celebrations have been swept up, it’s time to start thinking about what we’re really going to do this coming year. I’m not talking about some “new years resolution” to join a gym, or start a new diet, I’m talking about sitting down and doing some real soul searching. You’re going through a difficult time right now, and believe me, I know how difficult the Holiday Season can be when your relationship is tanking!
But if ever there was a time for you to take the turning of the year, and in fact the beginning of a new decade, and put that symbolic change to work for you, it might be the best time – right now! Maybe your situation is one where you know you need to leave a relationship, but you haven’t been able to make the decision and take that first actual step. Maybe you’ve been waiting to file legal documents, or sign them and get the process completed, maybe you’ve been fighting over every little thing, determined to make the process as difficult as possible for the person you’re leaving. Maybe it is time to change – and change for the better.
Let’s face it, 2009 was the end of an entire decade that will probably go down in history as one of the worst. So I say let’s all make a fresh plan to make 2010 the start of the best one in our lives. Let’s chuck off the chains of fear and negativity and try to breath a fresh, positive perspective into our lives. That’s going to be the message you’re going to hear from me all this coming year. I’m going to be using this space to cover the individual issues and overwhelming complexities that are associated with the breakup of a marriage, but I promise to always try to balance it all with on overall focus on finding the positive, on finding ways to help you regain your center, to refocus yourself on finding joy in life, and to being the best person you can possibly be, married, divorced or whatever.
Please stay with me, please share your comments and let’s engage ourselves in this process and work together to make 2010 and beyond, our best years ever.
Jon
